علمتنى الحياة

I thought of writing a chain of some thoughts of mine & lessons i've learnt in the past 26 years, Hope u like them & share with me your opinions

علمتنى الحياة أن الأصدقاء الحقيقيون قلة قليلة جداً

علمتنى الحياة أنك ممكن تستغنى عن أى حد فى الوجود إلا أمك فلا يوجد بديل لها

علمتنى الحياة انك مهما عملت فى هذه الحياة هناك أشياء لن يجلبها لك المال مهما حاولت واشتغلت

علمتنى الحياة انك ان عرفت ان تقرأ العيون جيداً ستعرف الكثير عن الأشخاص الذين تتعامل معهم

علمتنى الحياة ان المال يجىء ويذهب دائماً لكن هناك أشياء يصعب الحفاظ عليها

علمتنى الحياة >> محدش كبير على 3 : الحب والخطر والخطية

علمتنى الحياة أن من الصعب أن تقنع انسان أن يشعر بشىء محدد غير ما يشعر به!!

علمتنى الحياة >> الهدوم ياما بتخبى : )

علمتنى الحياة أن التلفزيون والتليفون والانترنت إختراعات خطيرة لأنهم أكثر تأثيراً على حياة البشر (يستهلكوا كثيراً من وقت البشر)

علمتنى الحياة أن الصحة شىء لا يعوض أبداً ، السعادة مع المرض شىء صعب يصل إليه القديسون فقط أو من يقترب جداً من الله

علمتنى الحياة أن الحب الحقيقى لازم يغير حياتك ويشقلبها كمان و إلا يعتبر "نزوة عابرة"

علمتنى الحياة أن الرجل هو الرجل و الست هى الست فى أى مكان و زمان ومهما اختلفت الأجناس والأعراق والأديان....

علمتنى الحياة أن تعتنق ديانة ما ليس بالضرورة أنك تعيشها، وأن تمارس أشكال تلك الديانة لا يعنى أيضاً أنك متديناً

علمتنى الحياة أن الجهل يتفشى بصورة رهيبة و سريعة بينما الوعى والثقافة شىء اختيارى صعب الانتشار إلا فى ظروف مناسبة ومشجعة

بالنسبة للى هاجروا وسابوا مصر عادة بيتغيروا ويشبهون كثيرا اللى رقصوا على السلم (بشفق عليهم فى الحتة دى)

علمتنى الحياة ان مش لازم نربط كل حاجة بحاجة !!! أحياناً الأمور تكون مالهاش أى علاقة ببعض!

علمتنى الحياة انى مش لازم اعقد أفكر كتير لأن عادة بتيجى عاصفة تمسح كل تفكيرى وأكتشف انى تعبت نفسى عالفاضى...

علمتنى الحياة ان الفرح حاجة بين زوج وزوجة يرتبوها بالشكل اللى يعجبهم مش للناس عشان تتفرج أو تاكل وتنبسط وتهيص وتبدى رأيها

علمتنى الحياة.. اوعى تدى ودنك لكلام الناس مش هتخلص ومش هتعيش

علمتنى الحياة ان طريقة حياتك ف ايدك انت بسسسسس انت اللى تختار عايز تعيش ازاى وف أى جو

علمتنى الحياة ان العلاقات شىء مهم لكن كترها وجع دماغ و تلقى بهمّ وعبء مالوش لازمة فى أحيان كثيرة

بالنسبة للنقطة السابقة كنتيجة.. عمرى ما حبيت أكون مشهورة أو اعرف طوب الأرض، بسيب الطوب للأرض :)

علمتنى الحياة ان الأكل مش كل حاجة فى الحياة !!!!! (مفهوم غريب اوى و ف حياة كثير من الناس)

علمتنى الحياة ان عمر ما كان الCV كافى عشان أقيم شخص! لازم أشوفك! (ياما ورق جميل مرتب والأصل فاضى!)

علمتنى الحياة ان الهيافة والسطحية طريق سهل أوى ومنتشر آخر حاجة على الأرض

علمتنى الحياة ان الوقت أكبر عدو للإنسان إن لم يعرف كيف يتعامل معه

علمتنى الحياة أن أقصر الطرق بين نقطين هو الخط المستقيم

Apply it b2a !

ابتسامة طفل صغير تقدر تغير مودى تماماً

ما يحدث ويتحدد فى طفولة كل شخص يشكل بقدر كبير ما يحدث له وما يكون عليه لاحقاً لذلك فالتربية شىء صعب وخطير جداً

To Be Continued...

وسط الزحمة

Inspired @ first by one of my normal daily driving in our best friend Salah Salem St. :)

وسط الشارع والناس والعربيات والدخان

مع الميكروباص والمسّتنى... السائق والتعبان

وسط الزحمة كلام كتير ومشاوير وحكايات

ندّور مع كل واحد ايه حكايته ونفهم من بين السكات

سواق اتوبيس ماشى بالعافية شغلانة تعبانة وجايباله الكافية

سواق تاكسى متعود وزهقان ماشى سرحان ف ابنه التعبان

سواق ملاكى بيقول يا باسط سلكها وفكها من عندك

ماشى على مهله ومتأخر

سرحان ف علاوة ومصيف ووشه متكدر

سواق نقل و دى شغلته

من هنا لهنا وتعبت صحته

وواحد ماشى على رجليه

شايل هم الدنيا والناس واللى حواليه

بيبص فى السما وسط حزن وملل

بيحاول وسط الدخان يلقى أى أمل

طفل ماشى ف عزّ النهار يبيع فل

داير من الصبح يدوّر على رزق

بس مرفوض ومطّنش من الكل

نفسه يفهم طفل جميل ماشى ف عربية يعنى ايه

يعنى إيه وليه هو يمشى على رجليه؟

ليه أمه تدور تلف تبيع عسل

وناس تانية عايشة زهقانة من الكسل

ليه هو يستحمل حر الصيف

وغيره باصصله بقرف من عربية بالتكييف؟

وتمشى تلف وسط الناس...تشوف حاجات كتير

عربية تايهة ماشية مش عارفة لفين

صاحبها محبط سايق ناسى طريقه منين أو ماشى مكسور يدور على حبيبته فى الشارع والعربيات اللى ماشيين جنبه

كلنا زهقنا وملّينا

طريقنا الماشيين فيه

مش عارفيين هيخلص امتى

ولمّا نوصل هنلاقى ايه!

يمكن منلاقيش مكان

ويمكن نلقى الميعاد فات

يمكن ننسى رحنا ليه

ويمكن نتوه وسط الحارات

بس أكيد بيقتلنا ملل السكات

وزهقنا من الكاسيتات والراديوهات!

يمكن تغّير طريقك خالص

توصل أسرع لمكانك

يمكن تلاقى طلبك ناقص

وتندم عالوقت واللى فاتك

كلنا زى بعض ف الآخر

نفس التعب والزهق

نفس الانتظار والتفكير والقلق

ربنا يتوب علينا من الحر والدخان

والفيروس والزحمة والغرامة والسايس كمان!

يارب نمشى مبسوطين و ف الآخر نلاقى ركنة

نبقى هاديين مطمنين و نوصل دايماً ف ميعادنا

وندعيلك يا بلدى من القلب ومن جوّا

يعمرك وينجحك ويدينا إحنا بقى الصبر و القوة

We can always be Back!!

Cant believe it! i've been away from my blog all this time! But what? we can always be back If we want to the things we love! I love the option that u can still get back to what u left long ago! :)) Now, i feel back home, to the place in which i used to feel Cozy My Sofa my couch :) I feel it's welcoming me back too! To my total surprise! many of the blogz i used to check regularly of other blogger friends are still the same likie the day i left them!! as if we all stopped same time! I wanna write! and will keep writing :)

Blogger IAM BACK! :D

زمان و أنا صغير

زمان و أنا صغير

كنت بحلم ابقى كبير ابقى كبير تعب القلب واتحير م الدنيا وم المشاوير

الحلم كان برئ مفروش بالورود والقلب كان جرئ مليان بالوعود ولما كبرت قلت ياريت ما كنت حلمت ولا اتمنيت قلت ياريتني فضلت صغير زى زمان

انا من صغر سني حاسس بشئ جوايا وحلمت زمان اغني والكون يسمع غنايا غنيت غنيت وفى وسط الغنوة بكيت ولقيت الكون كله بيتغير قلت ياريتني فضلت صغير زى زمان

حلمت زمان ببيت وبقلب يكون معايا وم الاحلام صحيت على جرح مالوش نهاية وداريت وداريت الجرح فى قلبي داريت ولقيت العمر يا دنيا قصير قلت يا ريتني فضلت صغير زي زمان

Search the Reason for the Season..

So this is Christmas

And what have you done

Another year over, And a new one just begun

And so this is Christmas, I hope you have fun

The near and the dear ones

The old and the young..

A very merry Christmas, And a happy New Year

Let's hope it's a good one without any fear..

And so this is Christmas for weak and for strong

For rich and the poor ones, The war is so long

And so happy Christmas for black and for white,

For yellow and red ones, Let's stop all the fight

A very merry Christmas and a happy New Year,

Let's hope it's a good one without any fear!

MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYBODY AND HAPPY NEW YEAR!

MAY ALL THE BLESS AND JOY SURROUND U THE COMING YEAR AND EVERY YEAR..

LET JOY SPREAD :))

SINCERELY,

N.A.N.C.Y

The need for pen & pencil !!

One of the most things i enjoyed till college days was Writing, i mean real writing with a pen or pencil. I've always liked pencils and pens with all their shapes and kinds, liked 2write anything anytime wth any kind of them..actually i loved stationery in general, and was fond of having cool shapes of everything, cos may b that adds some fun 2school and study..(childhood days were lovely!), anyway the thing now that annoys me a lot, is that i rarely have to write wth a pen or pencil !!..we r all now dealing wth computers, i dont think people use pens now like b4, ofcourse still there's the need 4it, but definitely much more less than b4. Everytime now i begin to write smthng, i find myself as if i'm still a child in KG, and trying 2remember how to write!! it's really bad !..i remember in college days, even when the prof. was saying nothing of importance, i used to try 2come out wth anything to write, because i love 2write! I think some of u share the same thing wth me..it's frustrating bcos i feel some day everything will b automated and human beings will no longer b used :(( Anyway, i'll try 2practice it a little bit more if i could, i'm afraid i'd 4get it someday!! Ciao & c u the next post :)

"For Friendship"

نصائح لصداقة تدوم طويلاً

الصداقة فى هذا العصر أصبحت عملة نادرة الوجود.. وإليك عزيزى بعض النصائح لصداقة تدوم مدى العمر

مراعاة المشاعر عنصر أساسي للمحافظة على الصداقة فعامل صديقك كما تحب أن يعاملك

مودة والتحام فيجب أن تشعره باهتمامك به وأن تسأل عنه باستمرار حتى تزيد المودة بينكما

الصراحة وتجنب الكذب فالكذب يحطم كل شئ جميل في الحياة وإذا انكشف فسيميت الثقة بين الأصدقاء وإذا استمر فسيوصل إلى دمارها بالتأكيد وبالتالي لا ولن تستمر صداقة مبنية على الكذب

تعرف على طباعه حتى تعرف كيف تعامله دون أن تضايقه ولتفهم تصرفاته حتى لا تفسرها تفسيراً خاطئاً وتحصل مشاكل بسبب هذا التفسير الخاطئ

التغاضى عن الأخطاء البسيطة ضرورة من جانب كل طرف من طرفي الصداقة فلا يوجد إنسان معصوم من الخطأ

ولا شك أن هذا التسامح سيجعل الصداقة تسير بصورة طبيعية وتلقائية دون أن يكون كل واحد مقيد فى كلامه وتصرفاته خوفاً من الخطأ

Thoughts..

who is she??

she's weak, she's strong,

she's quiet and loud..

she's fiery yet tamed,

she's patient but waits anxiously..

who is she?

she's angry but self-controlled,

she's yelling and whispering,

she's serious and laughing,

she's bold and shy,

so, who is she??

she's smiling yet full of pain,

she's childish and very mature,

she's quick and slow,

she's sensitive yet bearing..

who is she?!

she's the woman and the girl,

she's the friend and the lover,

she's thinking yet feeling..

who is she!

she's deep and clear,

she's away yet here,

she's seeing here and feeling there,

she's judging and forgiving..

kind and smart,

having big heart yet picky..

"who is she"

she's all that and she's part of everything,

she's talking and she can listen,

she's demanding yet wholly giving,

she's buying and saving..

protecting yet needs protection,

who is she??

"she's all that"..

HOPE

This is one of the best things i've read recently..

"HOPE"..

"Author Unknown"

If you can look at the sunset and smile, then you still have hope.

If you can find beauty in the colors of a small flower, then you still have hope.

If you can find pleasure in the movement of a butterfly, then you still have hope.

If the smile of a child can still warm your heart, then you still have hope.

If you can see the good in other people, then you still have hope.

If the rain breaking on a roof top can still lull you to sleep, then you still have hope.

If the sight of a rainbow still makes you stop and stare in wonder, then you still have hope.

If the soft fur of a favored pet still feels pleasant under your fingertips, then you still have hope.

If you meet new people with a trace of excitement and optimism, then you still have hope.

If you give people the benefit of a doubt, then you still have hope.

If you still offer your hand in friendship to others that have touched your life, then you still have hope.

If receiving an unexpected card or letter still brings a pleasant surprise, then you still have hope.

If the suffering of others still fills you with pain and frustration, then you still have hope.

If you refuse to let a friendship die, or accept that it must end, then you still have hope.

If you look forward to a time or place of quiet and reflection, then you still have hope.

If you still buy the ornaments, put up the Christmas tree or cook the turkey, then you still have hope.

If you still watch love stories or want the endings to be happy, then you still have hope.

If you can look to the past and smile, then you still have hope.

If, when faced with the bad, when told everything is futile, you can still look up and end the conversation with the phrase..."yeah....BUT.." then you still have hope.

Hope is such a marvelous thing. It bends, it twists, it sometimes hides, but rarely does it break. It sustains us when nothing else can. It gives us reason to continue and courage to move ahead, when we tell ourselves we'd rather give in.

Hope puts a smile on our face when the heart cannot manage.

Hope puts our feet on the path when our eyes cannot see it.

Hope moves us to act when our souls are confused of the direction.

Hope is a wonderful thing, something to be cherished and nurtured, and something that will refresh us in return. And it can be found in each of us, and it can bring light into the darkest of places..

Never lose hope..

Flowers..!

Flowers are one of the most beautiful things among nature gifts..i enjoy the sight of flowers anywhere, may b i dont have a very good knowledge about their kinds..but in general i like different colors & shapes.. yesterday i was organizing some folders on my pc, and i found that i have many pix for flowers..so i thought of meditating on some of them and share this wth u..hope it'd b of interest 4some of u.. p.s : they r only thoughts of mine!

1- This flower is lovely , i love its color & the dew on it..i dunno wht dew brings 2my thought..but actually it has good effect on me..may b because i love dawn and sunrise..the time of dew..this flower reflects beginning..

2- As for this one it's my favourite flower,,the sunflower, it reflects for me hope, joy, and success too, this flower is not an ordinary one, it's unique..

3- Hmmm, the red rose!...this flower brings beauty 2my mind and the sense of femininity, it reminds me of a seductive woman, one that can make any man fall in love with her..

4- lol, this one is a little bit childish 4me, also lovable, it's certainly rebellious and joyous and has a sense of humor :) this one is attractive..

5- This bunch of tulips should b in the hands of some lover, going 2meet his sweetheart, and couldnt find smthng sweeter 2offer her than this bunch of beautiful & elegant tulips..these ones r for LOVE..

6- This flower reflects joy, hope and faith 2me,,it could b friendship flower, and i see so much tenderness in it too..it sends a tender message 2the world..

7- Soo u thought all is love n joy? noo, there might b some calmness and bit of sadness in life..this flower is sad..but u know wht?, i feel it'll b very beautiful one when it grows, it just need much love and care..

flowers hold many beautiful meanings of life,,in our path we feel each of them, so try 2enjoy every meaning ...

Chosen quotes..

Here r some quotations i liked recently..

• If you don't control your mind, someone else will. (John Allston)

• No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted. (Aesop)

• Often the test of courage is not to die but to live. (Vittorio Alfieri)

• A good heart is better than all the heads in the world. (Edward Bulwer-Lytton)

• Perfect love is rare indeed - for to be a lover will require that you continually have the subtlety of the very wise, the flexibility of the child, the sensitivity of the artist, the understanding of the philosopher, the acceptance of the saint, the tolerance of the scholar and the fortitude of the certain. (Leo Buscaglia).

• Stubbornness does have its helpful features. You always know what you are going to be thinking tomorrow. (Glen Beaman) looooool

• When women are depressed they either eat or go shopping. Men invade another country. (Elayne Boosler)

• A person usually has two reasons for doing something: a good reason and the real reason. (Thomas Carlyle)

• The hardest battle is to be nobody but yourself in a world that is doing its best, night and day, to make you like everybody else. (E. E. Cummings)

• We live very close together. So, our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can't help them, at least don't hurt them. (the Dalai Lama)

• There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle. (Albert Einstein) "i like living both lives ;)"

• If there's a way to do it better ... find it. (Thomas Edison)

• As long as a man stands in his own way, everything seems to be in his way. (Ralph Waldo Emerson)

• If fifty million people say a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing. (Anatole France)

• When people tell you how young you look, they are also telling you how old you are. (Cary Grant)

• You can chain me, you can torture me, you can even destroy this body, but you will never imprison my mind. (Mahatma Gandhi)

Nice!

"There was a very cautious man who never laughed or played; he never risked, he never tried, he never sang or prayed. And when one day he passed away, his insurance was denied; for since he never really lived, they claimed he never died." ..

Quote

"When Life does not find a singer to sing her heart she

produces a philosopher to speak her mind"-

(Gibran Khalil Gibran)..

من الأعماق صرخت إليك يارب

..يارب استمع صوتى

فها الأرض غارقة فى الدماء

وها الإنسان يضمر أقصى شر فى قلبه

فليس لنا سوى أن نصرخ إليك

من متاعبنا..وهمومنا وشقاءنا

يكفينا مجرد صرخة الرضيع المقتول

لتذرف دموعنا لأنهار وبحور

ليس لنا سواك ياربى

لأنك أنت قد تساميت فوق كل من وما على الأرض

رسالتك حب وسلام وهاهى الآن تمحى

أرى هذه الأيام آخر الأيام

عندما لا يبقى حب فى القلوب ولا سلام

جهل الناس معنى الرسالة

لم يفهموا أنها جاءت مسبقاً قبل ما تجىء به الأيام

علم الرب شر الإنسان من قبل

ولكن الإنسان مازال لا يفهم ولا يريد أن يفهم

لا يفهم أم لا يشعر، إنى احترت فى ذلك

ربما الإثنان معاً، فيا لشقائه

إنى أشفق عليه وبشدة..

من لم يرد أن يفهم وقد محت الأيام صفة إنسانيته

إنها الأيام والعصور والتغييرات

ليتنا قد بقينا مثلما نحن دون أى تغييرات

إن كانت الأيام سوف تغير القلوب أيضاً

إنى اتساءل شيئاً واحداً

ماذا يفعل هذا الإنسان بقلبه؟؟؟؟

فيما يستخدمه؟؟ أيدق مثلما تدق قلوبنا؟؟

قد وظف الخالق جميع أعضاءنا وقد سمى القلب بينهم

ولكن هؤلاء قد دنسوا القلب والفكر وكل ما خلق

أعود وأقول الرب علم بشر الأنسان

أنستطيع أن نمحى الشر؟؟

لا نقدر أن نمحى كل الشر، ولكن

فلندعو الله أن يرحم الأرض من الشر

ولندعو لهم أيضاً لأنهم لا يعلمون ما هم فاعلون

الله..محبة..فرح..سلام

For better life

• *Let love always come to u in its time, never search for it or pursue it.
• *Always express ur feelings out to the ones u love, u'll feel happier.
• *If u love a person who does not love u, leave ur love in ur heart only as a memory, it will remain a beautiful memory, for u have "loved", "we r born to love"!
• *Dont let ur love for someone be a fog on ur eyes to let u only see ur lover and ur love 4him/her.
• *Try hard 2make people feel happy, u'll b urself more and more satisfied with urself.
• *Draw limits for some things u do in ur life and check back if u exceeding those limits ..
• *Try to love everybody, everything from all ur heart, it can be real if u feel the beauty in the world around u..
• *Dont ever miss a moment u know will make u happy..as long as it conforms to ur concept of being "right".
• *Dont ever regret on "loving"..we arent born to hate anyway..
• *See always the beauty in the person u deal with, the good side also of things..
• *Avoid depressing places as much as u can in which u find urself chocked! on the contrary, go 2everywhere u feel relaxed in.
• *See if u reach ur happiness and goals through right ways, a way u'll never regret on.
• *Find out how 2avoid the wrong choice next time, and dont regret it.
• *Respect people and their needs, even if they r not of ur rank, religion, nationality, or beliefs.
• *Find out the things u share with others, to enjoy sharing it wth them, not wht u always struggle about!
• *Dont judge people according to the closer 2ur heart, let everyone take and have wht s/he really deserves.
• *Take every opportunity to make urself a better human being! (better education, better general knowledge, manners, languages, religious, any skill..etc)
• *Mind ur temper, be aware of wht u r doing when u r angry so as not to do smthng u'll regret on later..
• *Find always wht people around u love so as 2surprise them wth it every now n then..
• *Always have that human nature, and touch, and dont let civilization abuse u !

Work brings work ?!

Today i'm quite enthusiastic to write a post! actually today was my first day at work after graduation.. the place is not new for me because i've worked there before during summer.. actually i wont talk about the place, it needs another whole long post, anyway in short, it's a very dear place 2my heart.. but 2day i want 2talk about my feelings on the first day at work after being graduated!..ofcourse it wasnt that strange because of the place familiarity 2me.. but actually the day itself was different because it's the 1st time i stay those long hours working ! and trying 2concentrate and then i get distracted so i try 2concentrate again,,,lol, and continuing the rest of the day after work wth lots 2do too!! :S anyway it was nice, and i began 2retrieve memories wth that work and that place, and people... another thing happened wth me, and i found it hillarious somehow! well since i got the offer 2go back 2work at the office, i found wht people always used 2say "work brings work!", as i found that other companies called me that werent expected 2call at all !, cos of different reasons, really i was laughing 2day, cos it's my 1st day at work ! ya3ni el nas eftakaret tetkalem now! anyway guys, i just wanted 2pop up the idea ! cos it always happen wth many people, as they step the 1st step into anything, starting 1st job, finally the offers come as heavy rain ! why is that? ! and where were those people when i wanted them 2call ?! :)) i'm kidding ofcourse, but it really let me think 2day of how this happens wth all people, there must be a reason... everybody is welcomed 2post comments and answer 2 this mystery! :) stay well everybody! God bless..

Mabroooooooooook My Egypt!

Mabrooooooooooooooook for every Egyptian! it's reallllllyyyyyyyyy great guys that "our land ..our cup" f3lan ! i was dreaming of this cup since our 1st match wth Cote d'Ivoire ! i asked dad quietly.."dad..do u think we could make it 2the cup and win??", he was thinking and told me.."it's not that easy!"...i was silent, but deep inside of me, i had a feeling we could make it,,we made it in 1998, why wouldnt we make it in 2006?! although i dont c our players as great ones, as not all of them are very good, plus their fitness compared 2other African teams is not good,,,anyway,,i had a little dream and it became true,,and i'm proud of my country 2day! N.B.."i dont know, but in a way or another, at the end, i felt 2day as if it was meant for Egypt 2win!..because throughout the matches, i was feeling as if there's "magic" companying "Egypt"...we r not playing that gr8, there r other teams better than us in many ways,,and it is not that easy...but.......It was meant for us in a way or another!! 2day i believe so much how football is unpredictable and mysterious, and keeps u guessing all the way! and IT IS INTERESTING ! (not for local matches!)". yalla ya shabaaaaaaaaab, Mabrooooooook 3alena el KAS! God bless Egypt!

Happy for Egypt!

أنا مبسوووووووووووووووووطة أوى يا جماعة انهاردة عشان مصر كسبت الماتش :) و نفسى نكسب كمان أكيد البطولة بس حتى لو مكسبنهاش، هيبقى شىء جميل اننا وصلنا لحد الماتش ده.. صحيح أنا مش مثلاً زى الولاد اللى بيموتوا فى الكورة وعندهم هوس بيها، بس الفكرة برضه انى بحس إن بلدى هي اللى بتلعب.. مش عارفه ليه ناس كتير معندهمش انتماء و لو صغير أوى لبلدهم! و أنا بتكلم عموماً يعنى مش بس فى الكورة أو مصر.. المفروض إن الإنتماء ده غريزة فى كل انسان.. علم النفس بيقول كده.. ان الانسان بيحب يحس دايماً انه منتمى لحاجه.. من أول بيوتنا و عائلتنا إلى بلدنا مثلاً و الوطن أو القارة .. إلخ، ده حتى الواحد لما بيشتغل فى مكان لمدة طويلة بيحس انه زى بيته وبيبقى عنده انتماء شديد.. وأعتقد انه حتى لو الانسان حاسس ان بلده دى مش أحلى بلد فى الدنيا ولا أغنى بلد ولا حتى أنظف بلد.. وبيقول مثلاً: هى البلد دى ادتنى ايه؟؟..أعتقد برضه ان البلد اللى الواحد اتربى فيها و فتح عينيه عليها..لازم يحس بالانتماء ليها..زى مثلاً أهالينا كلنا..محدش مثلاً بيختار والده ووالدته و عيلته، ويمكن مايكونوش أحسن ناس ويمكن حتى يكون على خلاف معاهم فى حاجات كتير، لكن أكيد ليهم فضل عليه فى حاجه

المهم.. مش عايزة أحس انى بكتب درس فى الوطنية يعنى، أنا بس مبسوطة، وبفرح لما بشوف الناس مبسوطة بالشكل ده..تحس الناس ما صدقت تطلع من الهموم الكتير اللى عندها..يا ريت بس ننجز أكتر :)) عالعموم يا جماعة أتمنى للفريق المصرى التوفيق،، واهو الواحد يلاقى حاجة تفرحه! معلش طولت عليكو

يا رب نفضل دايما فارحانين :)

Reborn!

First, Happy New Year to everyone who 'll read this post! wishing u all happiness, success and many many blessings for the new year 2006.. second..i've been thinking of wht i could write as a new post at this time of the year,, actually i had a thought on my mind the past few days,, and i liked 2share it wth u all.. it's the idea of being reborn..of feeling urself a child or a baby again!,,,looking at the baby Jesus in the manger, would let us all think of it,,where is our innocence?!..i know anyone reading this would say,,"ohh!!, we lost it very long agooo"..ok i agree, but still inside each one of us, there is still some innocence left..it appears sometimes but so rarely,, well, when i thought of it..i found out that if we imagine ourselves babies or children again,, and feel it about ourselves..we'll be peaceful, not worried but having gr8 faith (because a child have great faith in his father), and soo happy (a child is easily cheered up!), and we'll b having more strength (because any child doesnt depend on himself but on his father).. look at the Baby in the manger and try 2meditate.. everyone plz try 2find out innocence inside urself,,u'll feel very much happy and loving.. i wish everyone of us would find a joyous thing 2 feel this Christmas,, May u all have a gr8 year and a Merry Christmas! Enjoy it !

People Talk

Sorrily, i'm writing this while i'm really unhappy.. i really need 2 write something.. u may not bother or like the topic that much, or feel it's an ordinary thing..but plz try 2give it concern.. i'd like 2ask everybody,,,Do we think of wht we talk about everyday?? do we really pay attention 2wht comes out from our mouth? do we really pay attention when we say bad words,,(including each & every bad word)?? and finally..Have we ever thought about our talk about other People?! (other people here means people not being "there", involved in the talk). this topic hasnt come 2me from scratch,,it has roots.. and i'm talking about it here 2 let people read it, for all of us 2think of it.. -When we talk about people, wht do we say?? -have u ever thought how do u approach people's lives, characters and deeds with ur tongue? -do we mind thinking first before we talk about somebody badly, even if we dont mean it 2b "badly".. -many times we say "msh asdeen" ! (not intentionally), but wht's the result??? -do we think also and remember that God says that people who r talking in nonesense and gossip do not deserve His Heaven.. Well..guys,,this topic deserves thinking,,,i beg u all 2 pay attention. Sorrily, we do not think of wht we say as important as it is,, In the evening, i was telling a friend of mine about how important ur deeds are more than words or wht u say,,but it seems God wanted 2send me a msg, because at night, he sent me smthng.. "the thing someone says is also of so much importance, it could destroy many things, and hurt many hearts and feelings" i wanted 2 send the msg 2all of u too.. Sorrily, even close friends, or people who r having a peaceful relationship between eachother, they may also talk behind eachother's back badly..and this can lead to very bad results..(brdo ma3 en el nas msh asda !! ) Beware of ur tongue.. it can cure,,,and it can kill too.. "THINK BEFORE YOU TALK PLEASE".

Ups n Downs...!

Sometimes, i feel that happiness hardly lasts for long...dunno if it's all people's case,,and btw, i'm not that sad now,,but, i was just thinking...every time i'm happy, it's veryyyy quick that bad thing that comes from far away !! it can hardly wait for more time 2come!! i dont deny ever that in my life uptill now i had very cheerful moments,,i thank God for them,,but,,,Sadness sometimes rushes 2us..again i wont say "us", i'll talk about myself,,may b it's not ur case here...i dunno if u will agree wth me,,anyway, i'm not the type who is very pessimistic,,on the contrary, i'm optimistic and always look 2the brighter day... but sometimes, i feel everthing around me or anybody, wants 2take my peace out of my heart,,ofcourse it's not the person himself, or thing, i'm sure the devil wont b happy seeing any of us living peacefully..soo he wants 2 take that happiness away,,sadly i say this..because i want 2 keep my peace..but happily i remember God's promises that in Him we r strong enough 2 fight anything.. May God gives me and u all the strength 2 fight any bad spirit inside us.. Keep ur smile and i'll try 2keep mine..:)

a HUG !!

a Hug !! how sweet, affectionate and essential it is,,! first i'd like 2thank my gr8 friend Tony,,for inspiring me 2write this! thank u Ton! well...who doesnt need a hug? everyday? every week at least! i think we all do need,,,when i was asked why one may need it..i said a hug gives...gives love, affection,,secure,,warmth and encouragement.. the good thing about a hug is that both persons feel well..they r both hugging eachother,,so it may not b matter of giving only or taking only, it's both,,i dunno if i chose the right picture, but that's the cutest thing i have for a hug :) teddy bears aslan r sooo cuddly.. btw i love the word "cuddle" and "cuddly"..it quickly reminds me of my loved teddy bears,,which i always like 2hold from time 2time.. guys i wont b long, but u know wht..remember the value of a "hug" hug someone when u feel s/he needs it..hug ur daddy and mummy,,and ur teddy bears..hug ur pillow :) (i do ! ) most of all,,feel the hug of God! it's everyday and soooo BIG! stay wellll guys.. and remember 2Hug .. Love, Nancy..

God bless ur soul..

Rania..

May be i didnt know u personally,,

i didnt have the chance to see u one more time b4 leaving,,

i met u and knew u some few years ago..

and i realized u r a friendly, quiet girl..

someone who is simple wth everbody,

i do remember ur warm smile,

and sweet hello 2everyone,

i knew that u were a member in God's service,

and that u didnt hesitate 2serve Him anytime,

u had that simple aura,

which let anyone feels free with u,

i still remember that i felt happy everytime seeing u,

something was telling me "this is a beautiful soul"..

sorrily dear, i knew more about u after u left..

but u know wht,

i felt closer 2u

because u'll pray 4me :)

u'll pray 4 all of us

i know u r now happy, seeing all the saints

and above them all our Mother Mary

please do pray 4 us all up there

in that beautiful place,

the place where there is no sadness, melancholy, or weap.

dear, we r all praying here 4u that God bless ur soul,

and that u rest in peace..

God bless u Rania..

Bless ! :)

well..it may not b smthng new..but i'm writing this new post bcoz i feel i want 2write smthng..i just felt 2day how much i'm blessed..and i appreciate every minute that i live, bcos i'm healthy and able 2do many things,,in addition 2many things in my life,,i have beautiful mum n dad :)and a beautiful home and my own room, i find so many things i can eat everyday,,and can connect 2people through many ways,,as for people,i have many friends, and people who cares 2ask about me and check if i'm ok every now n then,,,guys, i think we should c into everything we r going through..there r soo many things that we take for granted..and consider them "normal 2have"..but actually they r a "bless" specially for each one of us..from God..may b God hasnt got me a job yet 2let my mind think a little about everything in my life, instead of having a busy long day in which i dont c through anything at all..:)i want 2thank a beautiful person i've known lately but seemed 2have known her long ago,,thank u Maha..knowing someone like u is a bless in itself..i wish u the best.. i know my friends may read this post,,so i want 2thank each and every one for being in my life,,and for adding 2my blesses..i wish u all God's gr8 blessings and happiness.. u r part of my happiness.. so, stay well,c u soooon.. Nancy..

Reflections..

"Who am I today?" I ask..And I wonder if I even know..

I know the past has shaped me now, Even though the past was long ago...

The little moments form a blur, The times both happy and sad, All the people I once knew, And the things I used to have...

They all helped me to become where, what and who I am now,

Because everything has influenced me, I'm not sure exactly how..

But I'm thankful for the memories, Even of the people I've never really met,

For the people I miss, the people I love, And even the people I'd like to forget..

For these memories have helped me grow, They've made me calm, yet strong,

And now there's a story to my life, That they've been writing all along..

So, thank you for the memories...

Without them, I don't know who I'd be..

Because somewhere among these memories are the things that define me~~~